you wake up one morning and the world never seemed more wrong, like an endless journey you wonder why life must go on. you wake up one morning and every breath is a gift, as beautiful as a song, your spirits need no lift. but come afternoon as though good feelings knew thrift, like perfect …
Womanity
thoughts on being a woman…
psychology of the bouquet toss
This year will probably be the busiest for me in terms of wedding attendance. This past Sunday, I completed my 4th out of six weddings for this year and attempted a new approach to that dreaded moment called, “the bouquet toss.” Why brides still insist on tossing that thing must be a twisted form of …
single in the church
Not sure if I can share my thoughts on this matter with clarity in one post but I finally decided to give it a shot 🙂 So here’s the deal. The single woman has four considerations: 1. Society’s idea of how you ought to feel about being single 2. What you think about where you …
When are you an old maid?
After reflecting on my first post on being single, and listening to the feedback, I made some revisions to the NM singles section and figured it’d be good to follow up with more clarity. It’s as impossible to define the parameters of Never-Married/NM singles as it is to find two identical cultures. That’s because marriage …
when I grow up…
One evening, on a drive back home from prayer meeting at church, my Dad asked me what I wanted to be when I grow up. It was one of those precious moments one-on-one with your Dad which you never forget. And being a Daddy’s girl, it meant so much to me that he even cared …
on being single
A false alarm caused me to start preparing a presentation for a singles’ seminar this past month. As is usually the case when I prepare any presentation, it seemed the preparations benefited me more than they could have anyone else! The seminar didn’t end up happening, but I made so many discoveries that I have …
happy mother’s day
Somewhere along the line, perhaps almost a decade ago now, my mother and I developed a tradition. You know how on your birthday, everyone gives you all this attention…the unending stream of wall posts on facebook…for a little more personal touch, you have an actual message in your facebook inbox or a text message on …
womanity…
My friend got me reading this article that got me thinking about womanhood. I’m no feminist, but as the Bible teaches, I believe that men and women were created equal though different. Somewhere along the line, the woman came to be defined by her child-bearing capacity. Then, the counter-swing so emphasizes everything but that capability. …
About Women…
Read this tonight and it resonated: A good woman is the best thing this side of heaven; a bad woman is the worst thing this side of the pit. A woman touches the limit both ways; she rises higher, and falls lower than man. The most degraded human being on earth today is a woman; …






