May is the month when I wasn’t sure I’d get my monthly blog in or not. It was really a toss-up: “I may or may not blog this month,” I thought. But I just really did not want to break my beautifully consistent record of blogging every month so here I am writing something down. …
Wait
Saw this poem as a friend’s note on Facebook and I liked it, so I share it here for your blessing. (Author Unknown) Desperately, helplessly, longingly, I cried. Quietly, patiently, lovingly God replied. I pled and I wept for a clue to my future,* And the Master so gently said, “Child, you must wait.” “Wait? …
the more I know the less I know
I absolutely love being a student again! Seriously! Sometimes, I can even feel my brain grow! It’s awesome! Now that I’ve convinced you of my sincerity by the overwhelming use of exclamation points, I shall proceed to confess to a phenomenon that is completely new to me. Yes, I’d heard it spoken of, but I …
Live in the Tension: Marriage
As a single young person with a desire to live wholly for God, there’s a tension that develops with respect to marriage. It goes something like this: Thesis: Jesus is all the world to me. He is my soul-sufficiency. Take the world, but give me Jesus – all its joys are but a name. I’d …
Twenties’ Top Three Regrets
My days as a thirty year old are numbered. And thoughts of entering my thirty-somethings has me reflecting on my twenties – the good, the bad and the ugly. Well, mostly the bad and the ugly actually. After this post I promised myself to turn my focus to the good so I can give God …
how was GYC?
A conversation I had with a Croatian friend of mine during our first year of college in the US stands out. She said, “Sikhu, I don’t understand why Americans ask, ‘how are you?’ when they don’t really want to hear your answer!” She would actually take the time to craft a meaningful response to their …
it’s baby season
So I’m a few days late, but Christmas is a time of year when the world remembers the miracle of the incarnation. God, who is infinitely infinite, packages Himself into the tiny, helpless form of a baby. With no earthly father to claim, He is born of a virgin – IMPOSSIBLE and yet apparently, with …
culture shock
Berrien Springs is awesome! No, I’m not being sarcastic. Yes, it’s in the middle of nowhere. Yes, there are only 4 or 5 places to eat out. And yes, the air on campus sometimes smells like cow dung. haha. But those are the very things I love about this place. Well, I could live without …
wait, who’s older?
Over the past few years I’ve met women who have challenged my long-held conviction that when it comes to marriage, the man must always be older than the woman. No, he couldn’t even be a day younger! This belief did not evolve in a vacuum. Rather, it was seeded by lectures during Sabbath afternoon youth …
how do you mentor a mentee who doesn’t want your mentorship
One of the greatest gifts that experience brings is the opportunity to mentor the less experienced. So in light of my 30yr status, I’ve been doing some reflecting on how I responded to mentorship in my youth. Sad to say, on many occasions, I have been far from the model mentee. One example comes to …









